Celebrant for your humanist wedding

Your love. Your story. Your humanist wedding.

Authentic, modern, and romantic – free of cliché. I tell your story exactly how it is. In Berlin, Brandenburg, and bilingually (DE/EN) worldwide.

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Portrait of Michael Wienholz Michael Wienholz with his loyal dog
About me

Hello, I'm Michael.

I love good stories. Especially the real, unvarnished ones that life writes. As a wedding celebrant, I have the privilege of putting these stories into words and making them felt on your big day.

With my long-standing experience on stage and in hosting, I know how to captivate people, make them laugh, and create emotional depth without feeling stiff or artificial. A humanist wedding should feel like a conversation with a good friend – relaxed, close, and professional all at once.

When I'm not writing speeches or marrying couples, you can usually find me in the forest-rich countryside of Brandenburg, accompanied by my dog. He makes sure I stay grounded and keep my eyes open for the small, joyful moments of everyday life.

  • Ready in all of Berlin & Brandenburg
  • Bilingual ceremonies (German & English)
  • Marriage equality – love knows no borders
Michael Wienholz
Philosophy & Style

Modern ceremonies for modern couples

Your wedding should reflect you 100%. That's why I don't use cookie-cutter templates, but tailor-made concepts.

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Modern & Romantic

I find the perfect balance between emotional depth and a relaxed atmosphere. Your wedding can be solemn, but it should also leave room for laughter and tears of joy.

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Love for all

Whether a classic wedding, modern version, or custom rituals – all couples are welcome here. I accompany hetero and same-sex weddings (LGBTQ+ friendly) with the same enthusiasm and respect.

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German & English

Do you have international guests? No problem. I offer ceremonies completely in German, English, or in a harmonious, flowing mix of both languages.

Myths & Truths about Humanist Weddings

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„Humanist weddings are cheesy and melodramatic“

Many immediately think of exaggerated declarations of love and forced pathos.

The Truth: They can be emotional, but they always remain real, humorous, and down-to-earth with me – completely free of cringey moments.

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„You have to be super emotional and cry“

Some couples fear the pressure of having to cry in front of everyone or read long vows.

The Truth: Every couple is different. If you prefer to laugh together and keep the ceremony light or humorous, that's just as perfect.

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„Humanist weddings always follow the same script“

Many ceremonies sound like the same quotes from the internet and standardized flows.

The Truth: I write every speech completely from scratch. Your wedding will feel like you – with all your quirks and uniqueness.

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„The celebrant just gives a speech“

It is often underestimated how much preparation and coordination goes into a successful ceremony.

The Truth: Good words come from trust. We invest hours in advance, coordinate with bridesmaids/groomsmen, and align the entire flow.

The path to your ceremony

How I support you

From the first inquiry to the exit after saying "I do", I stand by your side with structure, experience, and open ears.

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Get to know

In a non-binding conversation (approx. 45 min, via Zoom or over a coffee) we get to know each other. The chemistry must be right!

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Wedding Talk

We take 3 hours for your story. We travel back to how you met, your funny quirks, and your shared dreams.

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Fine-tuning

I write your very personal speech. Shortly before the big day, we walk through the exact schedule in a detailed call so that everything is set.

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Your Big Day

I will be on site 1 hour before the start, coordinate the details, and lead your ceremony. I bring my own professional Bose/Sennheiser sound system.

Blog & Guide

Inspirations & Tips

Here you will find useful advice about humanist weddings, structuring the ceremony, and how to make your day unforgettable.

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What I offer

My Services

Every wedding is unique – and that's why there is no standard package. I will create a tailor-made offer that fits your wishes and needs exactly.

The Personal Wedding Offer

What every ceremony with me includes is our shared journey – from the first message to the final word after you say "I do". Just write to me, and I will create a customized offer that perfectly fits your wedding day.

✓ Non-binding initial meeting (personal or via Zoom)
✓ Detailed preparation talk and planning together
✓ Concept and writing of your completely unique speech
✓ Coordination with maid of honor, best man, and other vendors
✓ Professional sound and microphone equipment (Bose S1, Sennheiser)
✓ Conducting your ceremony (approx. 45–60 minutes)
✓ Ceremonies in German, English, or bilingually
✓ Available in Berlin, Brandenburg & upon request across Europe

„Every love is unique – and so is your offer."

I'll gladly create a personal offer tailored exactly to your wishes, location, and the specifics of your ceremony. Just write to me!

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Happy Couples

Love Stories & Testimonials

There is no more beautiful feedback than the smiles and words of the couples I was allowed to accompany into marital bliss.

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„Our humanist ceremony in the garden was simply dreamlike. Michael told our story with so much humor and heart. It felt like being married by a close friend who has known us forever. All our guests were absolutely thrilled!“
Linda & Christian
Garden Wedding, Brandenburg
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„Michael solved the balancing act between German and English masterfully. Our international families all felt included and engaged. The atmosphere was relaxed, festive, and exactly how we wanted it. Highly recommended!“
Christiane & Thomas
Urban Wedding, Berlin
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„We have families from Germany and abroad – Michael wove the ceremony in German and English so elegantly that everyone felt right in the middle of our story. It was magical, warm, and unforgettable!“
Diana & Albrecht
Bilingual Wedding, Berlin
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„We wanted a traditional wedding with real heart – no inflated spectacle, just honest words and warmth. Michael lived exactly that. The ceremony was dignified, deep, and touching right to the last row.“
Elena & Manuel
Traditional Wedding, Brandenburg

Let's tell your story

Secure your preferred date for 2026 or 2027. Write to me completely free of obligation, and we will find out if we are a good match.

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